I have a friend who tells me that I am the person she calls when she is on the verge of giving up on a relationship. She's ready to throw in the towel, she's had enough, she wants to find the door and leave. And then she calls me and I have most of the time told her to stay and keep fighting for the relationship and most of the time she does stay and winds up thanking me for it later.
Making the decision of whether to stay or leave a relationship is one of the hardest decisions a person can make especially when you've invested a lot of time and energy into the person you're with. Not only is it emotionally painful to say goodbye to a relationship but it's made all the more difficult if you share children, pets, a home, and financial resources together. It is not a decision to take lightly. To be honest, I could probably write 5 blogs on this topic but I'm going to at the very least try to give you some clarity about whic ...Read more